A Good Day

"This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." -Psalm 118:24

I began today by posting this verse as my Facebook status.  And honestly, I wasn't feeling it at all.  I needed some inspiration though, knowing that the day would be a busy one.  We had two follow up appointments today for Sophie in Fairfax at the Children's Hospital Outpatient Center.  One with the neurologist and one with an opthamologist.  Having no idea what to expect from either I assumed they would be as overwhelming as the past month of information has been.  It turned out that both of them went well, were very routine and I feel calmer tonight than I have since before Sophie's birth.  I really like Sophie's neurologist.  He specializes in Tuberous Sclerosis and just has a calmness about him that puts me at ease.  We reviewed her seizure activity since discharge as well as her current medications and then just talked about where to go from here.  He decided to up one of her medications a bit starting tonight.  His goal is to have her seizure-free at home and said that there is still room to up some of her medications before adding anything new.  While he sees surgery in her future as a strong possibility his goal right now is to manage her as best as possible on medication.  And we are happy with that.  He wants to follow up with her in a month.

The opthamologist dilated her eyes and found nothing concerning on her retinas (TS can cause tubers there too) but will want to follow up with her in 4 months.  He also mentioned that Sophie is very farsighted in both eyes, equally, but that was something she could outgrow and it was unrelated to TS.  This is something that Mike and I both agree isn't a concern at this time and even in the future.  I mean, how many people really ever know how well their one month old can see?  We'll deal with farsightedness later on if it even becomes an issue.  Funny how things get put in perspective in a situation like this. :)

I left these appointments with a sense of peace that things are going to become more routine and manageable with time.  Today I laughed more and caught myself NOT thinking about everything that has been going on in the past month.  I realized at one point picking up Sophie that I actually looked at her and saw HER...not a potential seizure or a lifetime of challenges.  That's something I've been struggling with since her birth.  Seeing her as a person, our daughter, and not a diagnosis.  Mike said to me today that we need to start really enjoying Sophie like we did Kayla and Madelyn when they were this age.  It's been so hard to do that amongst it all. 

Sophie's past couple days have been good.  She had several seizures on Saturday and one of them had to be stopped with the emergency medication.  I had to do it myself since Mike wasn't home and afterwards I felt much more confident.  She didn't have any seizures yesterday or most of today either.  This seems to be her pattern...a day where she has one or more, then two days of quiet, then maybe a small one, etc.  She had a short one this afternoon and it was the first time I felt like we handled it without panicking at all.  Slowly but surely we're getting better at this.  Everyone has said that we would, but it is finally sinking in that we can do this.  Or maybe it's just with me. :)  Mike has been my rock and such a source of encouragement during this whole time.  I am so blessed.

Thank you to everyone who has been bringing us meals and in advance to my MOPS group who I know has plans to bring us meals for the next month.  We appreciate it so much and it makes dinner time so much easier.  We're going to have better days than others, but it feels good to finally have a day that I feel like I will have a life again.  I won't be living in an ER or doctor's offices.  Sophie will grow and change and show us what she can do.  It's all in God's hands and I am trusting His plan completely.

Sophie is HOME!!!

The day we've been waiting for has finally arrived...Sophie came home with us this afternoon!  She did well overnight so when I called this morning they said they were preparing her for discharge.  We are thrilled and nervous at the same time.  She will inevitably have seizures at home, but our prayer is that they are few and far between and don't often have to be stopped with emergency medication.  We feel as prepared as we can be and know that it will just take going through these types of situations on our own to get more comfortable.  It feels nice to be at home knowing that nothing is urgent.  Every time I've been home in the past month has been temporary and I've rushed around getting things done before having to leave again.

The girls love having Sophie home.  They only got to see her once on the afternoon she was born.  They keep showing her their toys and Kayla just loves sitting next to her and telling me everything she does.  I can't stop walking over to peek on her to make sure she's okay.  It's going to take awhile not to be so paranoid about her having seizures.  I've spent the afternoon organizing things and setting up a cabinet for all her medication.  It's so different this time around...we feel so at ease caring for her, but have these new challenges to manage as well.  I'm sure it won't be long before it becomes routine.

Sophie most likely has surgery in her future.  The doctors think that her seizures are coming from the largest tuber in her brain (there are 6 of them--one larger, 5 smaller) but want her to be 4-6 months old before operating.  We hope that in eventually removing that particular tuber her seizure activity would lessen or even stop and that she would have to be on so many medications.  Her TS diagnosis leaves a lot to "wait and see" and we just pray that she will grow up mildly affected by it.  For now we deal with any seizures, go through a lot of follow up specialist appointments, and most importantly ENJOY having her home with us!

Thank you for all your prayers...please keep them coming!  Sophie has a long road ahead of her, but she is loved by so many people already, even those we don't know.  We can't wait for everyone to meet her.

Delayed Again

This is going to be brief b/c I don't have a lot of time.  We roomed in with Sophie last night and it all went well except she had a seizure at 5:30am that lasted more than 5 minutes and had to be stopped with medication.  She then had two more later in the morning (one stopped on it's own, one had to be stopped with medication again) so they have decided to keep her another night.  If she doesn't have any today or tonight they we'll be looking at discharge sometime tomorrow.  If she does have more seizures then a 4th medication will be started and they'll be keeping her for longer to monitor her on that.  We are feeling okay about things.  It's all in God's timing and we don't want to take her home before she is ready and have her end up back at our local hospital or at Children's.  The day by day living is frustrating, but it is our reality now and we just take things one step at a time.  Keep praying!

Excited and Nervous-The Next Step

Well, the day we have been waiting for is upon us.  Sophie is scheduled to be discharged from Children's Hospital tomorrow morning.  We are so excited to bring her home and to have our family back under the same roof.  We are very nervous too b/c this will be a completely different experience bringing her home than it was with Kayla and Madelyn.  Sophie will be on 3 different medications so managing a schedule for that will be new to us.  We also have a plan of action for when she has seizures, which ultimately she will.  We just hope that they are few and far between and don't cause us to have to stop them with emergency medication or take her to the ER.  I'm sure I'll be on edge for awhile, watching her constantly, and being paranoid about every twitch until we get settled and into a new routine.  But, we'll be at home.  The hardest part of the past week and a half has been that I've been apart from Mike and the girls.  They have been doing well, but it's wearing on me.  Tonight my mom will be staying with Kayla and Madelyn while Mike and I room in at the hospital with Sophie.  We'll be responsible for all her care overnight with a nurse to help out if needed.  I'm hoping it relieves some anxiety and makes us a little more confident taking her home.

Kayla loves kindergarten and Mike has been getting her into a routine with school.  Our late sleeper has to get up quite early now to get the bus at 7:53am (!) so that's been new for her.  I am home this afternoon so that Mike and I can drive up to Children's together tonight so I'll be surprising her at the bus stop.  Madelyn is supposed to start preschool on Sept 7th and we are hoping that life will calm down some once Sophie is home and that she can still start preschool as scheduled.  Life is going to be busy!  I knew I would have my hands full with three kids, but little did I know what God had in store for our family with Sophie's health issues.  I keep praying that jumping right into things will build confidence and we will start to learn what our "new normal" life is like. 

Please pray that our rooming in experience tonight goes well and that everything goes smoothly with Sophie's discharge tomorrow.  We finally got our insurance to add her to our policy and also got her prescriptions filled to take to the hospital tonight.  It has been quite a headache getting those things straightened out and I thank you all for praying for us through the past couple days with that.  I also want to thank my wonderful friends from my mom's group for the very generous gifts I received this week.  Your timing was amazing as my wallet was stolen over the weekend and the gifts helped tremendously over the past couple days.  All the emails, FB messages, texts, just every way people have been supporting us has been indescribable.  Never have I understood the meaning of being lifted up by others the way I have in the past four weeks.  We are so blessed and literally feel the outpouring of love and support by so many people each day. 

I will leave you with the chorus of a song that has been holding me up lately.  Many blessings to you all!

I will lift my eyes to the Maker;
of the mountains I can't climb.
I will lift my eyes to the Calmer;
of the oceans raging wild.
I will lift my eyes to the Healer;
of the hurt I hold inside.
I will lift my eyes, lift my eyes to You.

"I Will Lift My Eyes" -Bebo Norman

Mixed Feelings

Lately I've been feeling overwhelmed and discouraged.  Sophie's been doing better with not as many breakthrough seizures while on three medications.  The doctors seem to have settled on these three for now as the ones we'll go home with.  Over the weekend there was talk of discharging her tomorrow, but today that's been pushed back a bit and I'm actually okay with it.  It's hard admitting that I'm scared to take her home.  There is so much information we have to know about how to handle any seizures that happen (which they will) that is just overwhelms me.  Today while at the hospital I got overloaded with information and it was too much.  The neurologist feels like they have controlled her seizures to the best of their ability for the time being.  She has confidence that we'll handle things well once at home.  The neonatologist, however, would like to observe Sophie for another 48 hours since they are done making medication changes at this point...just to see if we can establish what is normal for her while on this combination of medication.  You'd think this would be disappointing, but it was actually a relief.  Don't get me wrong, I want her home so bad.  I want to be home with Mike and the girls again.  It is such a blessing to have family to stay with so I can be closer to Children's, but it is very hard not having my husband and kids with me each day.  I'm exhausted and so tired of spending every day in the hospital.  But, knowing that they'll be making extra sure in the next couple days that we're all (us and the doctors) comfortable taking her home feels right.  It's going to be scary no matter what.  The challenges with Tuberous Sclerosis are so uncertain and ever changing that it will remain to be seen what our "new normal" will be in our life. 

I hold on to my faith that God will not give us more than we can handle.  Days like today make me really want to question whether we are prepared enough for this.  I feel so helpless most of the time.  But, I am ever hopeful.  There is a purpose for this time in our lives.  God knew His plan for Sophie well before she was born and I believe she is on the perfect path for HER. 

Day By Day

The past couple days have been busy.  I've been spending several hours at the hospital each day with Sophie.  She is doing well.  They are still working on adjusting her medications to hopefully make her as seizure-free as possible for when she comes home.  We don't have a date yet and honestly we don't want a specific one set unless things are looking really good since we've been disappointed so many times in the past weeks.  The neurologist wants her there through the weekend since they are upping the newest medication tomorrow.  She'll want to see how that affects Sophie.  She has a breakthrough seizure here and there...some mild, some not so mild that have to be stopped with IV medication.  What I found out today is that the doctors are comfortable with her having 3-4 small seizures in a day as long as they don't last longer than 5 minutes.  At that point they want them stopped and when we are at home eventually we'll have a prescription for medication to do that if needed.  It's all so scary to me sometimes.  I can watch her have a seizure and it doesn't bring me to tears like it used to, but thinking about managing them at home brings anxiety.  I keep telling the doctors that when she is sent home I just need to know what to do in various circumstances (regarding seizures) and what to do when we don't know what to do!  They are great and have assured me they will prepare us as much as possible.

Mike, Kayla and Madelyn are back home now and doing well.  I spent last night at home since Kayla's kindergarten orientation was in the evening.  It was nice to sleep in my own bed for the first time since Sophie was born, but there was a nagging feeling that something was missing while I was there.  It was one thing when Mike and I stopped by for a couple hours to get mail, pick up things to take back to his parents, etc. but to have the four of us doing normal things there without Sophie just seemed strange.  Even though she's never been home with us, she has become such a daily part of our lives and focus.  I just can't wait to have her there with us even facing the challenges we are.  My prayer continues to be that once she comes home we will have a break from all this madness...some peace and time to just "be" as a family.

Thank you for your continued prayers.  It's a hard life lately, but we trust that we are right where God wants us to be.  One day at a time...

Some Good News...Finally!

Today our sweet Sophie is three weeks old.  It's hard to believe that it's been that long and at the same time it seems like we've been on this path with her for so much longer.  We got some great news today.  The neurologist said that Sophie is an excellent candidate for surgery to remove the largest tumor on her brain.  It appears from the EEG monitoring that the seizures are coming from that specific tumor.  I had just arrived at the hospital this afternoon when I noticed that she was having a small seizure.  The neurologist happened to be nearby and came over to view the EEG video from the past couple hours.  She discovered that Sophie had had many seizures and was able to see that they were coming from the same part of her brain.  Part of the reason she had so many was that they cut out one of her medications yesterday because they thought it wasn't helping.  Well, apparently it was doing something because taking it away caused her to have so many seizures today.  So she is back on all 4 medications and they'll be tweaking the dosages and observing her over the next couple days.

Sophie won't have surgery immediately.  The neurosurgeon does not like to operate on newborns and would feel more comfortable waiting until she is 4-6 months old.  The goal right now is to get her seizures under control with these medications and then send her home on them.  The waiting game will begin to see what happens, but hopefully they'll be controlled for awhile.  As she grows more seizures will likely break through and then a determination will be made if surgery will happen.  Mike and I both feel that it will eventually, and while it's scary, it could be life changing for Sophie to have this tumor removed if it could stop or lessen her seizures.  I've never been so excited to get news as overwhelming as this.  But, in the whole scope of things it is the best news we have received.  There is a plan now and we just have to see how it unfolds.

I believe that God is leading us down this path.  It has been so hard for me to make sense of the past three weeks and why Sophie has to go through this as well as our family.  To be disappointed over and over thinking she might come home and then being overwhelmed with all the unknown about her condition has been very difficult.  Today I feel a sense of peace that our biggest prayer has been answered.  There is an option for surgery if medication fails.  And our baby girl could have a chance at a much more normal life. 

Thank you for all your prayers and keep them coming.  Pray that the doctors are guided in the right direction in controlling her seizures to a point they are comfortable sending her home.  And that once we bring her home, we might have a break from all this for awhile so that we can enjoy Sophie and start living our lives as a family of five.  Many blessings to all of you.  God is so good!

A New Chapter-8/16/10

This will be brief for now...I'll add more tonight.  Sophie had multiple seizures overnight and was transferred to Children's Hospital in DC early this afternoon.  We are on to Plan C which is starting evaluation for possible surgery to remove some of the tumors, if they can narrow it down to one or two that is causing the seizures.  She'll be there for 1-2 weeks and monitored by 24 hour video EEG to track her seizure activity.  We both believe that this is the right path for her to be on since many medications have failed so far.  It will be logistically different for us and we'll be figuring all that out over the next couple days when Mike and the girls head home.  When I know what we need help-wise I will start letting people know.  Please continue to pray for all of us as we enter this new chapter of caring for Sophie.

...We just got back from visiting Sophie at Children's.  It is a really nice place, but overwhelming in that we don't know the doctors, how to get around in the hospital, etc.  It's going to take some time to get used to a new routine there.  What we do know is that I'll only go once a day for several hours b/c getting in and out of DC is a lot harder than going to Fairfax (which I have been doing twice a day) to see her.  Tomorrow the neurologist will see Sophie and we hope to get some answers as to what happens next in this process.  Will keep everyone posted as we get more information.  Please pray that our family has smooth transitions over the next week in getting used to a new hospital, a new routine for me once Mike and the girls go home, and for Kayla starting kindergarten next week amidst all of this going on.

Sophie Update 8/13/10

Yesterday we had a meeting with Sophie's neurologist and neonatologist to discuss the plan of action regarding her seizures. We outlined Plan A, B & C which relieved a lot of anxiety for Mike and I. Plan A was to max out the dosage of two of her current medications and leave the third the same and see how the next 24 hours went. She reached 48 hours being seizure free early this morning, but had a very long one at about noon today while I was there which takes us to Plan B. Plan B is to back off slowly on two of the medications and add in the 6-day dose of a new medication, Topamax. They are doing that this afternoon and should be able to tell if it is working by early next week. If it works then she'll be there through the week to finish the 6 day dose and I guess would be discharged next weekend. If it doesn't work we go to Plan C which is to transfer her to Children's Hospital in DC to start evaluating her as a candidate for surgery. It would be a 1-2 week evaluation process where they would monitor her and back off on some medications to induce controlled seizures to see if they can isolate the source of the seizures. If they can trace them to one or two tumors then she would be a candidate for surgery to remove them. If they find that the seizures are coming from more than two tumors they most likely won't operate...and we haven't asked what Plan D would be. We'll deal with that if we get to that point.

So now we have a course of action where as before we didn't know how long she could be at Fairfax. Now we know that if the Topamax works, she could come home possibly next weekend and if not then she'll be taken to Children's. While surgery is not our first choice (or the doctors') to deal with the seizures we are seeing after two weeks that the medications are not working so far and are hopeful that if she becomes a candidate for surgery that removing some of the tumors could be life-changing for her and us in a positive way.

Please continue praying for Sophie, our family, and the doctors that they be guided in the right direction regarding her care. This is all in God's hands and I believe that He is leading us down the path we are supposed to be on. Whether it be medication or surgery or whatever comes after, all we can do is be the best parents and advocates for Sophie that we can.

Sophie Update 8/11/10

It's been a hard day. Once again we were looking at being discharged (tomorrow) but Sophie had several prolonged seizures last night which changed everything. Found out today it is not common that seizures in a newborn are this hard to control, but the doctors remain aggressive in finding the right combination of medication to get her to a point that they are comfortable sending her home. They are going to re-evaluate her medication and come up with a new plan that they will meet with us tomorrow morning to discuss. To say that we are overwhelmed with information, names/changes of medications, etc. is an understatement. The timeframe we are looking at now is at least 6 more days in the NICU since one of the new medications needs to be given in a loading dose that will take that long to complete. Mike and the girls will most likely go back home early next week and I will stay up here to be near Sophie. Kayla starts kindergarten on Aug 23rd and we want both girls to have a week at home before that adjustment begins. I have promised her that I will be there for her orientation and when she gets on that bus on her first day! :) Some things a Mommy just can't miss.
Please keep praying for all of us. The next several weeks will be quite an adjustment with both girls starting school (Kayla-Aug 23, Madelyn-Sept 7) and I know somehow it will all come together. I keep being reminded that God will not give us more than we can handle. Some days lately I question that, but each time I am eventually granted a sense of peace that keeps me going. There is a purpose for all this that remains to be seen. We are so grateful for all the love and support.

Sophie Update 8/8/10

Not all that much to say. Sophie went for 36 hours without a seizure then had a small one at 3am this morning. This afternoon she had three in a row while I was there and one of them was longer than usual. The doctor has started her on another medication so now she is on three different ones. So we start over in observing for 48 hours. Hoping to talk to the neurologist tomorrow to see how realistic it is to get her completely seizure-free since her condition will never be cured by medication, just maintained. We've stopped thinking about potential dates for her discharge b/c it just becomes disappointing when things change the day before we think she might come home. Taking it one day at a time, sometimes even shorter increments than that. Please keep praying for her. We just want to get our whole family back home, but know we have to do what is best for Sophie and for now this is what she needs. Take care.

Sophie Update 8/5/10

I haven't updated all week since we've been hoping that our next one could say that she was going home. It was looking like she would be released tomorrow until this afternoon when some things changed. The medication she's on has been working fairly well this week. They've been adjusting it and checking her levels to make sure the appropriate amount is in her bloodstream and while a few seizures have happened things were looking better. She had two seizures within an hour yesterday afternoon and they were still going to send us home with her same medication in hopes that the higher dose would take some time to work more effectively, but ultimately do that. This afternoon they decided to add an additional medication to send us home with and the neurologist as well as the doctors and nurses have been assuring us that we are ready as parents to handle this so we were feeling very confident. Not long after this, Sophie had three seizures within an hour while I was holding her. The neurologist wants to go ahead as planned and start the new medication in combination with the current one, but wants to observe her and any seizure activity for the next couple days. He really wants her to be seizure-free at home, as do we, and this is where our journey begins with being aware of her, the seizures, and adjusting medication when needed. It's overwhelming, but after 9 days of this we are actually getting used to it. We've met with all the specialists, been bombarded with information, but overall it seems like life will be manageable if we can just get home!

Mike and I both were disappointed this afternoon hearing that she wouldn't be released tomorrow. We just want to go home and bring our sweet Sophie into our day to day lives. Kayla and Madelyn are having a great time at Grandma's, but they want to go home too. And we can't. It's such a hard feeling as parents when we want something so bad for ourselves and all of our children that we can't give them. But, it's become a lesson for us as well as the girls that we band together as a family of five when life gives us a challenge. We've emphasized that we are blessed to be able to stay here, all sleep in the same house each night, be close to the hospital, and have our needs and theirs provided for daily so that we can focus on being there for Sophie. And that we would do this for either of them. Already, Sophie is teaching us and our girls so much.

Sophie is an amazing baby. We fall in love with her more each day. She is so calm and content when awake, nurses like a champ, and sleeps so peacefully you can just hold her for hours. This is the hardest thing Mike and I have ever faced, but throughout it all it feels right that she is ours. And we feel complete as a family now that she is here, even though our lives have been turned upside down temporarily. That is the thing we try to focus on. This too shall pass. We won't be going to the NICU forever. Sophie will come home and be a part of our lives.

Please continue to pray for Sophie and for our family. We feel so loved and supported through this. I will update over the weekend when we have a better idea of a release date. I know many of you are lining up meals for us when we get home and that things have had to be postponed. We so greatly appreciate this and thank you in advance.

Sophie Update 8/1/10

I cannot express to all of you how loved and supported we feel during this time. This is the hardest thing Mike and I have ever encountered and while our strength comes from above, we feel held up by our friends and family each and every day.

Yesterday, we met with a neurologist who diagnosed Sophie with Tuberous Sclerosis. Her MRI showed multiple lesions on her brain which in combination with the heart tumors and the seizures was enough to confirm it without waiting for genetic test results. We've known it was a possiblity all along, even with the hope that we had throughout the pregnancy that it might not be. All along we knew that the testing after her birth would give us true answers. It was a strange feeling to receive the diagnosis in that we obviously don't want Sophie to have this condition, but since she does we can now move forward and do what needs to be done for her.

Today was hard for me. I feel like I finally hit an emotional wall and the tears came off and on all day. Sophie has been in an isolation room in the NICU since her arrival since she came from another hospital and they had to get tests back to clear her of anything contagious. It was actually nice having her in there b/c it was a private area and a lot of space. This afternoon she was moved out to the regular NICU room which is packed full of babies. It's louder and cramped and just mentally stressful after awhile. The nurses are incredible though. I really feel like they love and care for each baby like their own. We thought that Sophie hadn't had a seizure for the past 48 hours as of this morning and then she had two this afternoon while we were there. We are thinking more that she may have had some small ones that the nurses missed since she was in the private room and not as visible all the time. So it is a good thing that she is in the main room now for that, but harder for us. We were hoping that she might be able to come home later this week, but after the seizures today there is talk of changing her medication which would require more observation and therefore, more time until she's discharged. Tomorrow we hope to be able to talk to the neurologist that will be following her once she's discharged, who also specializes in Tuberous Sclerosis. We have so many questions for him.

Please continue to pray for Sophie. She has such a long road ahead of her as do we. It's hard not knowing when we will be back home again and when our lives will settle down. It seems like life will never be the same again and that may be true. There is just so much emotion involved and we are learning quickly how to truly take life and all of this one day at a time. Mike and I know that she was given to us for a reason and that we were given to her as well. We stand firm in our faith and just want to learn how to take care of our littlest girl and give her a good life.

Sophie Update #1

I think by now you all know that our third daughter has arrived. Sophie Michelle was born on Wednesday, July 28th at 2:12pm, 7lbs, 12oz, 21in. She is beautiful and we adore her already. Her first two days have been hectic though. She was delivered with no problems and did very well for her first several hours. Yet, she started having seizures later that evening and after a whirlwind day yesterday, she is now in the NICU at Fairfax Hospital. This wasn't completely unexpected as you all know that she was diagnosed with two cardiac tumors during the pregnancy. These tumors are associated with Tuberous Sclerosis, a genetic condition, and were monitored closely throughout the pregnancy. The tumors themselves have never caused problems. They have grown in size, as expected, but her heart has always been strong and without defect. They are expected to regress on their own as time goes on and are not a major problem. What they are is an indicator of possible Tuberous Sclerosis. The good news during the pregnancy was that in doing higher level ultrasound the doctors did not find any more tumors on in her body, making Tuberous Sclerosis less likely, but still a possibility as it is a condition that exists on a broad spectrum with a wide range of indicators. So we proceeded with the pregnancy with a best case scenario, trusting that our baby was in God's hands and that we would be prepared to deal with whatever came once she was born.

The seizures she's having further indicate that she might have Tuberous Sclerosis. Right now she is being succesfully medicated for them and undergoing a lot of testing to hopefully give us an answer in the next couple days. She's had/will have an echocardiogram, kidney ultrasound, MRI, eye exam, and bloodwork for genetic testing. The MRI and ultrasound will look more closely for additional tumors and the other tests will help put all the pieces together to hopefully give her a diagnosis. She is stable though and you wouldn't know in just looking at her that this sweet, healthy looking baby is dealing with some problems.

We are exhausted. I was discharged from Fauquier Hospital just over 12 hours after her birth. I have learned that there is a reason they keep you for a couple days after having a baby since being up and around, traveling by car, and handing all this information is overwheming physically and emotionally. But, we are hanging in there. Mike is amazing and is holding us all up in so many ways. He and I have much faith that this situation is what God has given us for a reason and that we have been prepared as a couple and as parents to handle whatever comes our way. The doctors and nurses we have encountered so far have been incredible and for that we are very grateful. The hardest part of all this is the helpless feeling as parents that there is really nothing we can do but be with Sophie when we can and trust her doctors and God that she will come through this in the way that it is meant for her.

We have felt such an outpouring of love, support, and prayers from our family, friends, church family, and even those who we don't know that are praying for us. The emails, Facebook messages, texts, and voicemails mean so much and I only wish I could respond to them more, but know you all understand that life is just too hectic right now. We are now staying at Mike's parents house, where Kayla and Madelyn are too. They are happily distracted playing with their four cousins who are here which is a blessing for them and peace of mind for us. We can be there for Sophie knowing that our older girls are well cared for and happy, yet still spend time with them when we aren't at the hospital and know they are closeby at all times. We have many other family members that have offered to care for them, if needed, and that is such a blessing as well.

So that's where we are with things right now. I will try to update by email when we have new information. We are hoping to get a lot more answers today based on the testing. The goal right now is to get her seizures stable enough that they can be medicated at home and to get her on a regular feeding schedule. Right now she's receiving most of her nourishment by IV fluid, but I have started pumping and will hopefully get back to nursing some in the next day or so. We are hoping that she will be able to come home sometime next week so we can get back to a normal routine. She'll still have to be monitored through doctor appointments for some time though.

Please pray for all of us and know how thankful we are for all of you.